What would you choose if there were no perfect answers?
In this return of our Would You Rather series, we explore some confronting relationship dilemmas.
Would you rather discover your partner had a passionate year-long affair you never knew about, or have them come to you beforehand and ask for permission to pursue the exact same connection openly?
Would you choose the greatest romantic and sexual connection of your life if it only lasted two years, or a loving and stable partnership that never quite feels like your deepest connection?
Along the way, we unpack honesty, consent, infidelity, desire, long-term partnership, non-monogamy, family stability, and the complicated ethical questions that emerge when real life collides with our ideals.
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Dominating the Dominant
The other day, a man who I have known for a long time made the observation that I am not naturally submissive. Not because I am ‘bad’ at submission, but because of who I am outside of the dynamic that he and I share. His ability to see me, outside of his own experience of me and beyond the dynamic that we have made me hungry for more of his thoughts on me. Of course I knew he was right.
The Risk Of Monogamy
I have lost track of how many times curious women have finished their glasses of wine, and then asked me if non-monogamy is a threat to my marriage. Their skepticism is understandable, and they cannot help their curiosity. Whenever I hear this question, memories flash before my eyes of all of the incredi…
