Dominating the Dominant

The other day, a man who I have known for a long time made the observation that I am not naturally submissive. Not because I am ‘bad’ at submission, but because of who I am outside of the dynamic that he and I share. His ability to see me, outside of his own experience of me and beyond the dynamic that we have made me hungry for more of his thoughts on me. Of course I knew he was right.

The truth is that whilst I will submit and love being submissive,