In this episode, we explore one of the biggest questions we hear: is non-monogamy actually right for you?
We break it down into three parts, first looking at the reasons you probably shouldn’t open your relationship, signs you might be ready to start exploring, and finally we share what it feels like when you are ready to start exploring non-monogamy.
We explore the red flags, the green lights, and the deeper questions that reveal whether opening your relationship will expand your connection or expose what’s already not working.
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Parallel Monogamy
I watched as my boyfriend dove under the waves, turning to smile at me each time he came up for air, gesturing for me to join him. “In a moment”, I sang out to him as the cool breeze hit my face. I knew that I wouldn’t be joining him in the water. I also knew that this might be our last time away together.
Evolving Love Retreat
Friday 18th Sept - Sunday 20th Sept 2026
Yass Valley, New South Wales, Australia
In 2026, the Evolving Love Retreat opens to all.
Whether you’re in a couple, throuple, or exploring solo, this retreat is for you.












