In today’s episode we dive into the spectacle of public affairs—from the viral Coldplay KissCam scandal to the infamous Clinton-Lewinsky saga. We explore the cultural obsession with infidelity, the ethics of public shaming, and the complex dynamics of relationships under scrutiny.
Topics Covered
Coldplaygate: The viral moment that exposed Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head Kristin Cabot on KissCam.
Public vs. Private Affairs: Why some affairs explode into the public eye and what that means for those involved.
Workplace Infidelity: Why so many affairs begin at work and the psychology behind it.
The Clinton-Lewinsky Affair: A deep dive into the scandal, power dynamics, betrayal, and media frenzy.
Esther Perel’s “State of Affairs”: How this book reframes infidelity and offers a path to healing.
The Ethics of Enjoying Scandal: Grappling with the guilty pleasure of watching public drama unfold.
Security Clearances & Infidelity: Should cheating disqualify you from high-level government roles?
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